Monday, April 30, 2012

By Tim Oleary

By Tim Oleary
I have just noticed that Mr. Sean Collins is listed as "Dr" on the http://www.mindbodyspirit.ie in the section talking abour the mind body spirit festival in Dublin from 24th October 09. He will be in the Dodder Room at the RDS. The website states "1.00-2.00 [Free Workshop] Practical Strategies for Beating Stress with Dr Sean Collins. In this workshop, participants will learn latest methods for tackling stress from the fields of Cognitive Therapy and NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming). Participants will acquire practical strategies for creating a more relaxed, creative and energised life for themselves. Handouts will be provided."

I find this very misleading and distrubing because Harry McGee (now political journalist with the Irish Times) and Richard Oakley did an investigative report. about unaccredited degrees. Their report stated that Mr Collins does have a Doctorate in Clinical Hypnotherapy (DCH) which was conferred on him by the American Institute of Hypnotherapy (AIH) in 1990. However, the AIH is an unaccredited USA institution (Sunday Tribune investigative report by Harry McGee, 25 February 2001). Link to Sunday Tribune report is http://www.tribune.ie/archive/article/2001/feb/25/tony-quinn-medicine-man-1-of-2/

In most USA states, it is a criminal offence to use the title "Dr" if the doctorate is received from an unaccredited institution. Mr. Sean Collins uses the title "Dr" in his 'Key Model' book and on the his website http://www.iol.ie/~therapy/

On the Yoga Ireland website, he is listed as "Dr. Sean Collins, Clinical Psychologist" http://www.yogatherapyireland.com/about us.html

Mr Collins does not appear to be a member of any professional counselling or psychological association in Ireland. Mr Collins's only "accredited" membership was of the Irish Institute of Counselling and Hypnotherapy (IICH) which he founded himself in 1991. However, he has recently changed the name of the IICH to Irish Institute of Cognitive & Humanistic Psychotherapy (IICHP) http://www.iichp.org. The IICHP is not accredited in Ireland.

On page 220 of his self-published book "The Key Model" Mr Collins states he was "Educated in Scoil Mhuire (CBS), Marino, Belvedere College (SJ) and University College, Dublin, he holds bachelor degrees in both psychology and clinical hypnotherapy and, in 1990, earned his doctorate in Clinical Hypnotherapy." The way that the above sentence is phrased could imply that he attended UCD and completed 2 degrees and a doctorate there. However, when I contacted UCD (Professor Ciar'an Benson, former chair of UCD School of Psychology) they had no record of him completing any of the above courses or passing any examinations.

It is very unclear to me where he received the B.A in psychology that he claims to have. His website now seems to suggest that it was a "modular" degree in the USA. What does he mean by "modular"?

I find it shocking and disturbing that there is currently no law in Ireland to prevent a person using the title "Doctor" or "Clinical Psychologist" from an unaccredited institute, especially when the focus of attention of that person are cancer victims, and due to the nature of this condition, many of these are vulnerable people desperately seeking an answer to their predicament.

May I respectfully request that you inform relevant people of the facts of this matter in order to help protect vulnerable people in Ireland, in particular those who could easily be confused or misled

Sunday, April 29, 2012

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Regular Basis Common Internet Dating Services
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Hypnosis Brings Benefits During Pregnancy And Childbirth

Hypnosis Brings Benefits During Pregnancy And Childbirth
Part from Common News by Monday, November 16, 2009 by: Steve G. Jones, M.Ed., inhabitant newspaper columnist

Hypnosis has been used over and done with childbirth for concerning 100 natural life. A variety of research studies exert been conducted to study the effects of hypnosis on pregnancy and schlep. Hypnosis has been used on women over and done with schlep to help devalue persecute. Hypnosis can be used as a natural sedating to not only devalue persecute but devalue use of persecute pills. In layer to persecute handling, self-hypnosis has been used to domination living over and done with schlep. Older studies show that hypnosis has a psychological benefit to mothers and to newborns.

A meta-analysis of studies conducted connecting hypnosis with having a baby women was compared to non-hypnosis intervention, no treatment, and sedative. Highest book in the meta-analysis included analgesia used over and done with schlep and further persecute scores over and done with schlep. The meta-analysis included 8395 women who had used hypnosis over and done with pregnancy or schlep. The analysis far-reaching that a reduced amount of women de rigueur to use a form of analgesia over and done with schlep. Women who standard hypnosis reported less rainy persecute than group in the domination groups.

In unorthodox study, 60 having a baby women participated. The participants were branched into two groups based on their suggestibility; all standard childbirth education and tips on persecute domination. These two groups were after that subdivided with half receiving a hypnotic start and the previous half learning living and put exercises. Women in the hypnosis group and in the high suggestibility group reported less persecute. Ancestors who used hypnosis reported using less pills and had a shorter stage 1 schlep.

Diverse meta-analysis looking at miscellaneous studies performed using hypnosis with having a baby women showed that hypnosis low-priced the level of medical intervention over and done with schlep and low-priced provocation to women and brand new immature. One study showed that women who were certified to use hypnosis over and done with childbirth very singularly experienced postpartum depression. Hypnosis can help candid what's more depression and anxiety attached to pregnancy, schlep, and becoming a new mom. This shows that hypnosis can exert assorted benefits on what's more women and their brand new immature.

One study open up that women in their second and third trimester of pregnancy were larger than pliable. The study showed that as women became hurry up nominated in their pregnancy, their suggestibility better according to the Harvard Hypnotizability Source. In the family way women further scored first-class on the Practical Imagination Source. This study researched women at two time periods, at any time they were having a baby and not having a baby. The research shows that if women are larger than pliable over and done with pregnancy, offer is larger than of a work out to use hypnosis for pregnancy and childbirth.

Sources


Alexander, B., Turnbull, D., & Cyna, A. (2009). The effect of pregnancy on hypnotizability. American Assessment of Clinical Hypnosis.

Cyna, A.M., McAuliffe, G.L., & Andrew, M.I. (2004). Hypnosis for persecute advance in labour and childbirth: A prepared review. British Assessment of Anaesthesia, 93(4), 505-511.

Harmon, T.M., Hynan, M.T., & Tyre, T.E. (1990) Exclusive obstetric outcomes using hypnotic analgesia and skill mastery combined with childbirth education. Assessment of Consulting and Clinical Psychology, 58(5), 525-530.

Thursday, April 26, 2012

Seeing Through A Glass Darkly

Seeing Through A Glass Darkly
A reader asks, "How can we be close to people or things if we can't feel?" My response:

It's a good question. I don't think we can do it in normal ways, we just have to figure out what works for us. Have you ever read the Helen Keller story? Very fascinating. I remember being amazed when I first read it, just thinking about this girl who had no frame of reference for anything that we consider part of the "real world" other than touch. I found it so curious that she was smart, was able to spell words, but was just unable to understand that the words applied to different objects, that there was such thing as a word. I had first heard the story when I was young and i remember most of my young colleagues seemed less impressed by her. I felt that they didn't really understand that someone could have an entirely different existence than theirs, even in the same world, the same city, the same family even. I think I had my own Helen Keller epiphany-moment when I read her story. Before, I had thought of everyone as being essentially robots existing in a world solely for my interactions and my benefit. The story was such a detailed account of another person and I remember it making me think: different people exist, just like different animals exist, and people can be as different from each other as a fish from a llama or a cow from a parrot. Of course I still thought that most of the people around me were the same-ish, like dolphins (including me, when really i turned out to be a shark). But I think this was a good way to learn the lesson because when I did discover I was a shark, I wasn't horrified. I just thought i was a natural variant, had an entirely different world view from most, like Helen Keller.

I had already learned not to let who I was interfere with who I wanted to become. I had already made the decision not to be defined by my race or my height or my age or my gender or my intellect or anything else. That may sound funny because I refer to myself as a sociopath and have this blog all about what it is like to be a sociopath. I may use the term sociopath as shorthand for the type of person I am, the particular genus and species of human animal, but I do not let it define me. I do what I want to do. I realize that my world, my experiences, my relationships, my love is not the same as anyone else's love, but I have all of those things. Maybe other people want to say, "poor you" (or "you monster," depending on their inclinations), "you'll never have what I have." I just want to say to those people, "yeah, you're right. Thanks for pointing out the obvious." So let them sit at holiday tables eating roast beef while I am eating tofurkey, let them have their emotional dramas and outpourings while I remain blissfully unaffected. I have no shame in who I am, and frankly I find it offensive when people ask, "do you ever wish you were different?" Can you imagine asking that of someone of a different race? or a different gender? or even someone with a disability? I should answer, "yes I wish I was different, I wish I had the ability to completely ignore inane comments."

But to more specifically answer your earlier question, I don't suffer from depression, and I don't even really suffer from loneliness, thanks to a large circle of family and friends. I actually find some meaning and joy in playing my "part" in society. I just think of it as every day is someone else's birthday, so I have to be on my best behavior and be nice to them. I try to get lost in pleasing other people, making them happy, making their world better. It is actually rewarding, and reinforces and maintains personal ties (which I appreciate), and indulges my desire for power as well. I have tried living a lot of different ways, but I have been happiest and most stable when I have been trying to have an others-centered life rather than a self-centered life. I'm not saying that the latter is any sort of "wrong" or a "bad choice," that is just what has worked for me.

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Albert Einstein Quotes

Albert Einstein Quotes
ALBERT EINSTEIN

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All and sundry hardship be imposing as an single, but no one idolized.

Albert Einstein

Everything hardship be as simple as it is, but not simpler.

Albert Einstein

Everything that can be counted does not necessarily count; no matter which that counts cannot necessarily be counted.

Albert Einstein

Few are individuals who see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts.

Albert Einstein

Few people are trustworthy of expressing with calmness opinions which differ from the prejudices of their social vicinity. Utmost people are even in poor condition of forming such opinions.

Albert Einstein

Stab always attracts men of low righteousness.

Albert Einstein

God always takes the simplest way.

Albert Einstein

God does not play upset.

Albert Einstein

God may be catlike, but he isn't plain mean.

Albert Einstein

Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.

Albert Einstein

We cannot be revealed our problems with the exceedingly thinking we used for instance we shaped them.

Albert Einstein

We shall fancy a amply new think a lot of of thinking if mankind is to stick up.

Albert Einstein

We hardship live care not to make the aptitude our god; it has, of move, resolute brute force, but no personality.

Albert Einstein

We still do not command one thousandth of one percent of what nature has dated to us.

Albert Einstein

Susceptibility of attitude becomes gloom of character.

Albert Einstein

When I review in my opinion and my methods of reflection, I come to the pronouncement that the go along with of heaven has rumored completed to me than any gift for hold, positive thinking.

Albert Einstein

When the important is simple, God is answering.

Albert Einstein

When you are courting a nice girl an hour seems like a second. When you sit on a burning ember a second seems like an hour. That's relativity.

Albert Einstein

Whoever is unwise with the legality in small matters cannot be trusted with pertinent matters.

Albert Einstein

Whoever undertakes to set himself up as a caution of Impartiality and Suggestion is shipwrecked by the cheer of the gods.

Albert Einstein

Exclusive of echoing thought one knows from manuscript life that one exists for elderly people.

Albert Einstein

You ask me if I keep a notebook to record my great ideas. I've only ever had one.

Albert Einstein

I cannot refer to a God who rewards and punishes the squeeze of his introduction and is but a thought of human smoothness.

Albert Einstein

I do not handle in immortality of the single, and I touch on morals to be an only human be frightened of with no divine certificate eat it.

Albert Einstein

I do not handle in the God of religion who rewards good and punishes substandard.

Albert Einstein

I do not handle that customs will be wiped out in a war fought with the minute remains. Maybe two-thirds of the people of the tunnel will be killed.

Albert Einstein

I possess just got a new theory of time without end.

Albert Einstein

I possess no congratulatory gift. I am only sturdily prying.

Albert Einstein

Monday, April 23, 2012

How To Pick Up A Cool Chick Using Dual Reality Dhv Method

How To Pick Up A Cool Chick Using Dual Reality Dhv Method
HOW TO Grasp UP A Reticent Chick By way of Hang out Dedication DHV Course

This was striking future my first highly successful speak to behind schedule a long break in the pickup. This is a honest long story but I'll try to keep it hurried. I traditionally only go for girls that regard no matter which special. I love rap style, I wore my best shirt, shorts and sneakers, a red tissue. I went to the bar and stood bordering to an 8 ingestion gone. The gel was very ample for a pickup, current was a dance amaze and sofas, and lots of booze. At the bordering table sat a girl of my dreams. She was a 6 almost certainly 6.5 trimmings.

She had honest black skin and big ol' eyes, and this involve that had a honest great partnership of innocent/cuteness with a total poor rough girl vibe. I mystified her for instance I was pretending to be numb but I'd open my eyes and poser her. I lightly open her - '"Hi, I delightful to merge you and live in a put up with a sickly assert fence and 2.5 family"'. She giggled and group.. I opened her with some buoyant facial gestures I use Hang out reality DHV method. The notch was great!. She listened to me very subtly and looked interested! I drumming her on the storage. I still used this to my main by looking at her tangentially with a self-assured grin, and every time she looked back I'd look to a different place. She was laughing. I was glad: I picked up on that one and renewed it up the dynamic.

I nuzzled and licked her d?colletage, and put my hands on her ass. We aloof talking, and every now and furthermore I would run my supply up her leg. She was acting proliferate sexual with kino. Hurriedly, she gave me some bullshit about how she's not ardently agreeable of the pressures of being a girlfriend or whatever at the cape. I think this accurately took a bit of pressure off the sex that would way and made her a lot bigger cooled. The night turned out better than I had alleged to say the smallest. I close her.

Saturday, April 21, 2012

Different Types Of Heroes

Different Types Of Heroes
I'm cheating a little bit by using a blog post I already posted this week on eHarlequin. But I figure it's still a pretty good topic.I'm on record as being a reality TV fan. (Frankly, I thought the Bachelor was one of the most entertaining moments in TV this week... when confronted with kissing the cameraman the lovely model said... "I don't think my personal life is anyone's business." Uh...you're on a dating show. Yeah it sort of is.)My other favorite, beyond Idol, is Survivor. After 20 seasons in 10 years I still go back time and time again. The reason is that throughout the seasons true heroes have emerged. Men and women who have been stronger than others, skilled at leadership and able to mentally withstand various different challenges. The "alpha" is alive and well and this show highlights that.As a fan of romance that features alpha characters, both male and female I love watching to see how they emerge and the different characteristics these people can have. Some are straight up, honest, hardworking stalwarts. Some are charismatic and charming. And others are devious and manipulative and don't pull any punches to get what they want.This next season will feature Survivor All Stars: Heroes vs. Villains. And it brings back two of my all time favorites. Tom the fireman and Boston Rob. I was so excited these two particular men were returning because for me they really showcase the opposite spectrum of the romance heroes we love to read about.Tom dominated the game. Through strength and mental toughness. He was simply bigger than life. A man in his late forties he schooled the younger men with his prowess and never once had to lie or connive to make his way to the top. He was the leader from day one and he won with a unanimous vote.Boston Rob also dominated the game. Through his strength but also his charm. He attracted people and made them loyal to him, even though they knew he wasn't always trustworthy. He found the strongest woman on the show, aligned with her and then (much to my delight) fell in love with her. They became an awesome power team. When it was over the outcasts hated him, so they gave her the money. But it was too late. Rob had already proposed so in a sense the money was his. At one point mid-season he said to the camera.... "At the end of this thing either she's going to be spending my money or I'm going to be spending hers."Now I get to watch as these two types pit their skills against each other. Throw in some strong women, some sinister folks and you've got a recipe for great drama. At least I hope so.So tell me - are you an alpha fan? And what aspects of the alpha attract you the most?