Sunday, March 22, 2015

By Paula

By Paula
I have had this experience before. I dated a guy who was all about talking consistently and spending time on the phone and texting, etc. However, we saw each other about every three weeks if that - It was very odd to me. I didn't stop the rest of my life. After a few months I did take the initiative and questioned what it was about and didn't get much of a response - He didn't seem to have a direct answer. So, I ended it. He seemed more offended and hurt by rejection rather than pushing back and fighting for me and clarifying his intentions. Oh well

While each person is different, my sense is that some guys lack the confidence in themselves to be able to participate in a full blown relationship. They enjoy having "someone" with whom to check in and enjoy a bit of communication and affection, but won't take it to another level. As an alpha female (who would like to be less alpha), I think that some guys feel that we are a bit out of their league in some ways, but get a lot of energy from us. I think some know that long-term that some of their ways won't fly with us.

It does take skill to establish and maintain meaningful connection. You never know what someone's track record might be and what that may mean to current situation. I agree with Evan about women hanging back a bit and letting things play out. That he woman can say "yes" if she chooses to what gets presented but not push. People are always telling us about themselves through their actions.


Wednesday, March 11, 2015

A Pua Life

A Pua Life
A pua's life is not just about getting the girls.

the pick-up arts exists to "enrich your life", not define it....


A pua's life evolves around being better than your best self. A pua is much like an entrepreneur. He is knowledgable about things and events around him. He is competent in every thing that he does.

Much Like what mystey have told us, a PUA is

1. A leader of man

2. A protector of loved ones

3. Preselected by other women. how?

A pua has a lifestyle. Wether it is a hobby, Chilling out with friends, Humanitarian cause. A pua is there to be a benefit.

A pua has social intelligence. A pua knows that through being social is the way to be wealthy.

A pua is ABSOLUTELY VULNERABLE. Yes he is. They say that a man needs to be tough. What I say is that he can be tough if he is vulnerable. Why is that?

A real man will JUST DO what he wants. He knows the consequences, but he needs to do it. It is his life. He is not there to thought of "what if's", What if I fail? What if they laugh at me?. A real man is there to be the difference.

A pua is a high value man. Let this be YOU!

A man who has a vision and a mission.

A man who is a man


Monday, March 9, 2015

How To Make Your Own Baby Clothes For Cheap

How To Make Your Own Baby Clothes For Cheap

By Cathy Awes

In the field of art, there exists a movement called Postmodernism. If you are not an art student, or an artist, or possibly a professor of art, there's really just one single thing you need to learn about Postmodernism. This means that you may do whatever it is that you want. Essentially, it's a melding of things that have already come before, a brand new view on old things. What does this pertain to baby clothes? Anything you want it to.

Perhaps you're a young mother who is sick of the standard choices of pink and blue, ruffled or hemmed with ribbon. Perhaps you're on your second or third child and frustrated that these styles for your baby haven't changed at and you're sick and tired of considering precisely the same thing repeatedly. Perhaps you simply don't feel like purchasing baby clothes once every two weeks when your infant grows into the following size which they will rapidly outgrow. In any case, there's a answer to your frustration.

There are several items that are not baby clothes, but could possibly be. Like what you ask? How about bandanas? That's right, your baby is tiny. If teeny bopper club girls can wear bandanas as shirts, imagine just how much baby can squeeze into one! Bandanas are perfect for summer season as a shirt or a diaper cover, and that can be accomplished with out a little bit of sewing! With a little bit of snipping and stitching, there's plenty of material for the infant sized dress or pair of pants.

Baby doll t-shirts that are manufactured for young women are ideal as dresses for older infants as well as toddlers. Sure, some of the writing on them may not be so "babyish," but some of the more neutral styles would be considerably more dressy than you could find for the same price in baby dresses. Taking your own worn out clothes, or just clothes you're sick of as material to create clothing for your baby is a great way to personalize their style through your once loved clothing. It should save money and give you a bit more space in your closet.

Do you possess a t-shirt that you once loved, but that now is stretched in an unflattering manner, or perhaps has wear spots within a specific area? In that case, you're certainly not alone! A lot of the material coming from the t-shirt could possibly be salvaged and made into a whole outfit for your own baby to play in with a simple pattern that can be purchased for less than two dollars.

There are lots of other household items that can be used to tend to your baby. A normal sized towel, for instance, can, in a matter of minutes be converted into a robe for your baby to don at the beach or when just out from the bath. While the baby is an infant, just adding some accents and a hood to the towel will likely make a less expensive replacement for designer robes, and is a one of a kind statement that you just can't buy at a mall. Let your creative mind wander before you decide to dispose of those never used scraps of cloth and old clothes. Your wallet and also your baby will say thanks.

About the Author:

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Tuesday, February 17, 2015

Praying For Nigeria Boko Haram Strikes Again

Praying For Nigeria Boko Haram Strikes Again
photo credit rec'd 5/6/14 Silver Bird

As previously reported in our 20/20 section on May 6th, Abubakar Shekau the Leader of the Boko Haram Islamic Extremist group, has struck again. Below are a few facts to keep you up to date on this ongoing mission to rescue the girls of Chibok and Warabe.

On April 15th, 2014 over 200 young women whom were students of the Chibok Government Girls Secondary School were kidnapped by the Boko Haram at gunpoint. They were boarded on buses to the deeply wooded areas of the Nigerian border shared by neighboring Chad and Cameroon.


According to reports from various news agencies including the BBC, over 40 girls bravely escaped.

As the story began to make headlines around the world, the hashtags known as #BringBackOurGirls and #234 became the moniker for the global outcry. In addition to condemnation by the United Nations and a pledge of assistance by President Obama and US Secretary of State John Kerry, celebrities such as Angelina Jolie are speaking out.

On May 3rd, 2014 hundreds of young women gathered in Union Square, New York City wearing head wraps and scarves to protest and show support for the 200+ students of the Chibok Government Girls Secondary School whom were taken.

Unfortunately, at least eight more girls have been reported kidnapped as of May 4, 2014 from the nearby village of Warabe.

Nigeria may be miles away, but girls are universal. Though our language and customs are different, we share a love of music, movies, makeup and dreams. These young women were attending school to further their education and become successful.

As the Nigerian military goes on a dangerous mission to Bring Back Our Girls, we hope and pray that the Boko Haram is brought to justice and more importantly, that every girl is returned safe and sound.

Written by: Latoya Hoyte

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Saturday, February 7, 2015

I Have Left A Relationship By Paul

I Have Left A Relationship By Paul
I have left a relationship, and still hurting. My partner had in her mind the ideal relationhip with the ideal man. The efforts to change me to fit that ideal were great and I was so overwhelmed. I raised this and was told I was fighting the change all the way. Yes,i was. I was the same guy she met and fell in love with. Why this moulding process? All to do with past relationships; rather than love me as I am, the past dictated. She is now in another relationship doing the same The new guys thinks he's the luckiest guy alive right now but he is targeted for change! I am saddened but my silent screams made me realize the relationship fit was wrong. Still, I feel the loss of the dreams we we'd planned to share, but the resentment that was built towards me made this lovely lady say I was second best To an ideal! I have insight into this behaviour from her girlfriend as to why this existed, but she is at that pre contemplative stage, and stuck there. So, I left. It was not apparent when we met, or I missed it. It has been terrible, and I wonder how does one identify underlying damaging for a relationship.


Friday, January 30, 2015

Want To Get More Affection From Your Man Here Are Some Key Ways Which Will Help You

Want To Get More Affection From Your Man Here Are Some Key Ways Which Will Help You
Do you secretly wish that your guy showers you with more affection than what you are getting now? Then here are the excellent ways in which you can get him to give you more affection without seeming desperate about it.


When you are a confident and independent woman who knows what she desires and is not dependent on her guy to make her life worthwhile, your guy is going to admire you for it and surely love you and shower all his affection on you as he considers you as his asset.


When others see how good you are together and envy him for having such a wonderful woman he will surely be proud of you and appreciate that you are part of his life. His love and affection for you will obviously grow as he values you.


Girls are used to receiving compliments but that does not mean guys don't like being complimented, they too have feelings. Appreciate things that he does for you, tell him what you like about him or compliment him on his achievements. Make him feel special and he will reciprocate by showering you with all the love and affection.


Do not try to control him or be too demanding as this will put him off and he may not like you for it. Obviously he will not be able to respond with affection when you put him down. Respect his decisions and show that you value his opinion even if you may not agree to his point of view.


When you show that you are happy in his company and how much you enjoy being with him it makes him feel special. Instead of being a nag or showing dissatisfaction over small things, ignore them while concentrating on the good things of your relationship and get the affection of your guy for being an understanding partner.


Show him that you like doing things for him because you love him and care for him. Let him realize that you are investing your time and effort to make this relationship special and he will know your importance in his life and that makes him show his love for you.


Take off on a short trip with your friends and get loads of affection in bargain when you return as he realizes how much he missed you when you were not around.

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Wednesday, January 14, 2015

He Started Dating Powers

He Started Dating Powers
A Modesto teacher has left his wife and kids and quit his job to move in with his 18-year-old former student. The teacher, 41-year-old James Hooker, resigned from his position at James Enochs High School last week after investigations were launched into his relationship with a student. His girlfriend, 18-year-old Jordan Powers is a senior used to be a student in Hooker's class. "He's 41, she's 18, it's legal but gross," one student said. The situation has cast a dark cloud over the school, where one of Hooker's daughters attends and where Hooker was actively involved with students. "I feel like he took advantage of the situation," student Erica Goynes said, "and it's tough for us because he wasn't an anonymous teacher. He was involved in so many clubs and in so many aspects of our school, so it's just very disappointing foreverybody here." During a short phone interview, Hooker told CBS13 he started dating powers after she turned 18 on Sept. 5. But the teen's mother believes the inappropriate relationship started while her daughter was underage. Students at Enochs High have heard the same thing. "She was 14 when they first got together," one student said. "That's pretty disgusting, a guy like an old man would try and go with a really young girl." Hooker recently left his wife and children, one almost the same age as Powers, and moved into an apartment with his teen lover. The teacher-student romance spurred controversy and Hooker resigned from his position as a high school business teacher and club leader last week after being placed on paid administrative leave while the school district and Modesto Police Department investigate the relationship. Some parents expressed relief that Hooker is no longer on campus. "It's definitely wrong of him to pursue her in any way while he was still a teacher," said parent Nicole Peacock. Modesto police say the relationship remains under investigation. No criminal charges have been filed.Filed under: Local, News, Seen On, Syndicated Local, Watch + Listen