The Power Of No

One of the most powerful things a woman can say to a man is the little two-letter word "no". But there is an art to saying no the right way. You got to say no in a way so that they will want you to say "yes" - you've got to make them want to earn the word yes. And the more you withhold it, the more they'll crave it. But you've got to do it in a way that teases them. You want them to itch inside, and your "yes" is the relieving scratch they need. And the more you build that craving up, the more they'll invest in you. (And by "invest", I don't mean money - I mean invest emotionally). It's that same "the more I can't have it the more I want it mechanism" that we all know far too well. A lot of women think they have to be a "good girl" in order to get a great guy. But a good girl is just someone nice. Being a good girl doesn't make men attracted to you. Now, don't get me wrong - being a good girl is awesome. But you need to be more than that. Being a good girl is like being a good bread. You need a bread to make a great sandwich - but you also need some ham and cheese and salad and tomatoes to wetten people's appetite.

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