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What you have done were just exploiting the emotions and senses of humans. Not true love, you silly. What that guy taught you to do isn't anything about Love. Even now you have gotten your guy back, it may seems you are now in a relationship but this is not a "Love" relationship. Because, what that P.T. Carlito guy was telling you to do was just playing around with fear of losing and insecurity (As a guy myself, I have thought of what P.T. Carlito suggested and almost suggested something similar to my female friends but didn't because realizing how wrong this is). What you have done, were just putting the feeling of losing and fear back at someone. When someone feeling lost and fear, he/she will response and trying every single way to feel secure again. (e.g. if you made someone feel drowning, a normal human respond will try hardest to grab hold on to something to keep him/herself from drowning. And if you reached out your hands and let that person grab on to you, regardless you were the one who throw him into the water at the first place, he will still grab hold on you!). So, on the receiving end (i.e. your ex), the most obvious but wrong answer to do in a situation like this is to get back with you to. So, he was just responding to the lost and fear and not the true emotions and feelings of how he felt toward you. In time, the core issues between you and him will surface again. You may be enjoying the moment right now but it is just the feeling of lost and fear that your boyfriend is afraid of rather than truly appreciate and in love with who you really are. Also, have you two ever ask each other if you two are even compatible if not before but starting now? Nowadays, I found that we all try so hard to make things work towards our own benefits and has to be in control in a relationship (quite selfish, in my opinion). Destiny or Karma or whatever you call it, has its way to come back at you (You know, you b/f could be thinking how to get back at you all these time that you are enjoying right now). Good luck!

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