What Is A Successful Relationship What Are The Standard You Use To Say Your Relationship Is A Successful One

"He and she are having a successful relationship. Why my couple isn't so successful as them, what are they doing to be so so cute. I'd loved to have such a good relationship." she said and I replied: "You do have one but you are not even aware of it". Very often, people (man and woman) says that their friends or relatives lived in a perfect harmony with their partner and that their relation is a success but what are the standard for a successful relationship?

We, people, we've set standard for a successful relation and a less successful one based on our past experience and depending on what we see around us. Say our friends say they have a successful relationship because it last long, we'll assume that being together for a long time is a successful relationship but what if someone else tells us that his relationship is successful because they never had a fight since they know themselves, will we assume having no fight is a successful relationship? We assume things people tells us but we do not set our own standards.

Is a perfect couple one where there is no fight at all or one where the guy always bring flowers to the girl, I mean everyday?!

We cannot define a perfect couple firstly because there is not a published and set standard for love. We cannot define love that's why we cannot define success in love. We've all learn that concerning feelings, each and everyone reacts differently due to our education, nature or sensibility. This not only depend on gender but every man or woman doesn't react the same to feelings.

Secondly why can't we define successful relationship is because we are not living the relationship of other. What does this statement means?! Let's take an example and I'll explain it to you. Say some guy bring flowers to his wife everyday and then cook dinner and they eat and then go to sleep. That's fine and many girl (according to me) will say this is a successful relationship but believe me, not all girl will say this. Some might love changes; even if the guy don't bring flower everyday, but be a little more unpredictable. Come home, we don't have dinner and we go out to buy some fast food, go to the park, sit on the grass and eat.

See that simple example. This is a plain and clear way to explain that standard for love doesn't exist just as standard for wooing a girl. We cannot sets standard and we'll not be able never to do this, we can only live love. So, live love and forget about successful relationship to other. Your relationship appear a failure to others but appears as a successful one to you, believe me then, this is a success.

Have a good day and cheerio

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