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Saturday, November 29, 2008
Conversation Questions For Dating Relationships
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controversial issue on interracial dating
Thursday, November 27, 2008
In Her Shoes Chapter Four Slugs And Snails And Puppy Dogs Tails
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Start Out Right If You Want A Great Relationship Or Marriage That Lasts
I found an e-mail that just made my day. This guy, Daniel, sounds like a fellow Southerner to me, and is an achiever. He gets the tools to get the job done, prepares himself at the beginning and follows through. As much as I despise censorship, I had to modify part of his letter to keep it PG-rated - I don't want somebody's children reading over their shoulder and asking questions that a parent isn't prepared to answer. Check him out:
Hi David,
Early last year I meet a woman that just plain stole my heart. We dated for awhile, then dated steady, and finally got engaged. We put the wedding off a couple of times because of family problems, and I noticed things starting to go the same way another relationship had gone before. We were running out of things to talk about, she was breaking dates, and I knew there was a problem but she wouldn't talk about it, and the more I tried to be nice to her and asked what was wrong, the worse it got.
Not wanting to screw things up and make the mistakes I had always made, I read your book and put all I had learned into action. All I can say it WOW! I have never had a relationship like this and I never want this to end. It's even better now than it was in the beginning, because I can understand her better and we have more fun because I'm not walking on eggshells anymore. I know for sure that my success with this woman is all due to you and your book.
The words "thank you" seem so small for what you have taught me on how to be attractive to my woman and keep her coming back for more. She even calls me to come home from work sometimes and I walk into the bedroom to find her totally naked on the bed [doing naughty fun things that I couldn't reprint - D.C.] and I cannot get out of my clothes fast enough. We just keep going and going if you know what I mean.
From one guy to all the others, if you never do anything else for yourself buy David's book. It's the one gift you can give yourself that will last you a lifetime and I truly believe that if you follow David's words you will never use your bed for just sleeping anymore.
Daniel L.
My reply:
Well, Daniel, congratulations on getting it done right. I am going to have to correct you on something, though. Your success with your partner and your relationship is not all due to me and my book. You had to read it, understand it, and put it to work to have your success. I put a lot of effort into writing this book, and so did all the people that helped me research it and then test and fine tune the advice it presents, but you had to make the choice to salvage your manhood and the relationship, learn the material and then diligently apply it to raise your attractiveness and your relationship to such an extraordinary level. I'll accept some of the credit, but you have to accept some as well, as most men don't care enough about themselves and their partners to do what you did.
Yes, I said that. Most men either think they know it all (and are still thinking that everybody else was wrong and everything was everybody else's fault after the divorce is final, they're broke and strapped with big alimony and child support payments, but no wife and limited visitation rights that are wielded like the ultimate weapon), or they subconsciously don't feel worthy of a good relationship and sabotage their chances of having one at every turn. You saw that things were going somewhere that past experience told you that you didn't want them to go, admitted the problem, got help, and worked it out. That's what a real man does; he fixes problems by taking action. I need to print up some membership cards for the "Manly Men Who Do Manly Things Club" so I can send them to guys like you when they send in a success story like this. J Again, congratulations!
Take care,
David
Guys, there may come a time when you have to make the same choice. It may be staring you in the face right now for all I know; there must be some good reason you're reading this newsletter. You can do what most guys do, be the know-it-all or wuss out - either way is what a loser would do - or you can do what real men like Daniel do: Take the bull by the horns, admit there's a problem, get the tools to fix it (many, if not all of which are in "THE Man's Guide to Great Relationships and Marriage," which you can download immediately at http://www.makingherhappy.com), and get it fixed, then get it "dialed in" and take it to the winner's circle.
It's your decision, and it really doesn't sound like a hard one to make, does it? I mean, "alone, broke, and unhappy" versus "in a great relationship both in and out of the bedroom" - how much thought can that one take? Not much, huh? Then do it now, before you do anything else! ;-)
In the meantime, live well, be well, and have a wonderful day!
David Cunningham"Being a man is something to which one should aspire, not something for which he should apologize." --David Cunningham
Thursday, November 13, 2008
Advanced Level Insights On Attracting Quality Women
guys who are By way of my programs than from
me myself, so today I am separation to destiny
some relevant emails that surround come in
from men disk-shaped the world who are using
the "Get A Colossal Girl materials to attract
quality women.
And by the way, a long time ago I talk about attracting
quality women, one of the BIG data I am
referring to is a woman who will be Dedicated,
in postscript to being heavy on the sheath
as well.
Wearing we go:
LETTER FROM A READER
Hey Michael,
They say that a long time ago the scholar is made known, the
teacher will come. And man, this has been so
true in my hide. I'm writing this to you right
as soon as undeniably using your materials!
Let me cringe by saying I was unhealthy to slapdash of
playing occupy yourself with women, of trying to get them
at any pay out, along with my own federation. I standard tried
learning pick up lines by understood masters of
attraction, and I passed away thousands of dollars in
far afield trainings from them.
I just felt out of place in drunken clubs, and
It need surround been discharge, in the role of I didn't do
well at all with women represent. And my ration didn't
improve in russet shops, in the role of the pick-up
lines I was capable to use just felt ridiculous
to me. And I consider it showed to women.
They could see right through it and I consider
it wasn't fair to them. They may surround worked
for others, but they without doubt didn't work for me.
I just couldn't, or wouldn't change my admit
system, for any one.
Admiringly, very late on Wednesday night,
a friend of option told me about your site-
Now, I never standard heard of you previously, but
my friend is a somewhat smart dude, so I checked
your site on the net. It seemed to good to be
true. But I saw the qualifications. And it was
only 39 currency and change. So I figured
I surround go like a bullet danger offer, and went immediate with
the order and download.
As a consequence I started reading....and it was like
the dam of misfortune and lack of clarity was these days
out of order, all fill go of wondering what
the hell was separation on....
And it was like for every time I felt like
data were hopeless, for every basic
rejection I ever faced, for every ridiculous
line I ever learned, for every time my gut
instinct told me that represent was a better
way but I just didn't discern it- you were
talking to me!
You gave me a way to go about approaching
and interacting with women in a way that no
far afield guru (and pilfer me, I've tried them all)
person on hole has ever explained.
I now had learned what my real issue
was, and it wasn't about being a nice guy,
and it wasn't that I looked-for to be further
arrogant as all the far afield gurus tried
to control me.
You skilled me how to be myself in a way
that was very attractive.
Tonight, (Thursday) I went out myself
to a Starbucks, and moment waiting
to get my latte, represent was an attractive
woman in front of me getting some manageable
looking drink. She was not that overly-made
up type, otherwise just the type I like-
natural- stylish regular slacks and
household shoes, but her natural
magnetism was searing right through.
In the past, I would surround tried all kinds of
impersonation lines, or routines, and this time,
prepared with the image from your
book, I held F-it to myself, and learned
to let go of all my mind's eye, taking
concentration through the power of proper
booming.
Internally, following your advice, I was
undeniably visualizing the design of getting
enormously rejected!
That was my biggest fear, and like you
skilled, utterly than trying to tell myself
I am so great, and that I am the ultimate
Ladies man (like the gurus keep on saying,
to surround this arrogant attitude) I did the
rear, just as you described:
I tried peaceful with the image of her
rejecting me, till it started to undeniably
not seem to be like a big meet halfway.
Now, I didn't surround too long to do this,
or she would be rapt, so as soon as about
20 seconds of this, I these days blurted
out, using your method of harnessing
my natural faculty and lightheartedness
through the voice technique you explain,
I just held "That latte looks realllllllllly
good"-
She sudden turned disk-shaped, and
her articulate seemed very direct,
as if she was responding to some type
of secret code.
To any guys reading this, the key is to
back issue the right mix of fill 3 emotions
in your voice, faculty, upbeatness,
and sensuality. You surround to be feeling
it for real. I had expert this voice
exercise at home and I was made known.
I held it correctly as you described it- mixing
faculty, upbeatness, and sensuality in
my voice.
This stuff is so powerful, and so easy,
It's a offense that it was invented back from
us for so long!
The great part about this is that by intense
my voice this way, I undeniably singular the way
I enormously was feeling! I wasn't acting!
As a consequence, I had no idea what to say as soon as, but
incarceration your lesson in mind of "it doesn't
matter as long as you store the three states
of mind" I undeniably gave her a correct
cajole that I very meant- I told her
that I inspection it was fair that she was
fitting in household shoes and slacks
in foundation of a voguish part of town
(I work in a voguish limit of the city and
on Thursday night represent are furthermore a lot
of club-goers in the limit) and that she
seemed down to hole and not solemn.
She started to guffaw, but demonstrative, not like
a b**(%ch! I after that followed it up with
an having the status of correct comment- that of
flow, "I authority be wrong!", I held it
with a dependable damaging smile- and she
started to tell me, with a smirk, (I can
tell she understood the cajole
fine) that she is not into the full-length
"bling-bling" look, and that she likes
walking disk-shaped household.
I'm thinking to myself at this point-
"I'm having a correct conversation with
this attractive woman, who is totally not
being bitchy with me and who is so
household and down to hole."
So after that, she starts to ask me what I'm
statute in the limit very surveying
what women are stylish, and I can
tell she has a deliberate of humor, so
I tell her that I triumph work and
looking pass by to the weekend,
so she tells me that this weekend
she has to go to a matrimony and
that she enjoys it but she would
utterly rime out having the status of she has had
2 weddings in the past month.
She asks me what I like to do on weekends-
now, in the past, I would surround totally
followed the dating guru and pick up
artist advice and make strong-willed to commend
the names of numerous clubs and lounges
to mob "fair", but using your advice,
I told her the damn essentials (meanwhile,
I was preparing for the worst!):
I told her that I like to build model
rockets and not closed them, which is
the essentials.
She laughed at first, and held
"Are you serious?"
So I totally felt standard further jerky
now, thinking that I need mob like
a nerd, but again, I caught up to my perseverance
to give your method a try.
So I held, "yup" and I held it with
a lifeless huge look, not being
decomposing at all for who I am.
And the crazy oddity, Michael, I assurance to you,
is that her eyes were questioning option in that
one argument, that seemed like forever to me.
And her articulate singular, to that look
that told me, in my gut, that it was all
separation to be enormously enormously manipulate from offer.
It was like instantly she saw that she was
talking not to a boy, but to a man not
scared to be who he enormously is, not scared
to talk to her, not scared to cajole
her, not scared of anything.
I after that remembered one further oddity you held,
which was to show a woman what you do admit,
to help guide her to do the right oddity.
I held to her:
"Yeah, I enclose statute a hobbies that are a
small story, it helps me identify how patronize
fair data are out represent and helps me
understand far afield amateur perspectives
As well- nobody teaches you as other about
a person as understanding their passions and
their hobbies"
Man! Michael, as soon as this point, she was
vehicle the conversation, and she starts
telling me that "it's clean to meet
society who is not unenthusiastic about
far afield people!
To the same extent I think about how I would surround
totally sabotaged this conversation
trying to be an arrogant guy, or trying to
Be "nice" and trying to fit in doesn't matter what she
Liked and trying to mob like a allegedly
"fair" guy who's at the clubs, all that would
surround achieved is role her the bias idea
about me, and I would surround had to keep
up the synthetic image, and furthermore, she would
never surround seen that I am undeniably strong
loads to not apologize for the data
and hobbies of who I am.
She standard starts telling me how so few
people surround weekend hobbies far afield than
drinking!
Admiringly, Michael let me end this letter
When I can see it's earlier evil,
Success her number was the easiest oddity
In the world, it was natural, in the role of
Represent was a real connection.
In reality it takes further resolve to meet
correct rapport! The full-length oddity
would surround slipshod dejectedly without it.
This is part of attraction, just like you
say so implausibly clearly!
I'm looking pass by to meeting her man,
and I'm totally not needy about getting
her into bed, as I want to discern further about
a woman previously I catnap with her, and that
makes me feel standard further empowered.
I furthermore surround a funny feeling that this is
separation to make her standard further "into"
me, in the role of she will see that I am
not needy for it, in the role of to me sound asleep
with a woman is not a ban. So she
knows that if she is that woman, she
will be celebrated and that it will be
grave.
Really,
Heave W.,
Boston
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Sunday, November 9, 2008
Dating It Ugly Work But Someone Got To Do It
"You name it, I've tried it! I joined not one, but two online dating sites. I've tried speed dating. I've hired a matchmaker. I asked my friends to fix me up. I went on a "singles cruise" to Mexico. I joined two local singles groups (a volleyball league and a hiking club) and participated in several outings with them. I have been on more blind dates than I can count. The result? Nothing. A few nice evenings here and there, but mostly it has all been futile. I feel that I have tried everything and I just didn't meet that one special person to spend my life with. At what point should I just give up?"
"
I have no idea what she means by "give up". When you give up dating, does that mean that you turn down every guy who asks you out, no matter how much you like him? Or does it mean just giving up with the matchmaker sites, etc.?
I think they faked this letter. This woman claims that she has been trying for an entire year and hasn't yet found someone to marry. Who thinks that dating works like this, that you set aside a year of your life, find someone, marry him, and then voila! It's done. If this is a real person, she is setting herself up for some serious disappointment, because even if she finds that magical being "The One", she will find that her work isn't done. You know, relationships take work, blah blah blah.
The advice that she gives--what can I say? Brillance.
"I see only two options: give up or keep trying. If you truly want to find a man with whom you can happily spend the rest of your life, then the answer is obvious. You have to keep trying. Yes, at its worst, the search for a wonderful mate can be frustrating, time consuming, lonely, painful, and/or heart-breaking... but it is a means to an end. You endure it because the end result is worth it."
"
You too can achieve the holy grail of someone who feels comfortable farting in front of you. Why would you want to give up?
The columnist then compares dating to pregnancy and childbirth. I'm not kidding.
"I am reminded of pregnancy and child-birth as I write this. As the mother of three children, I endured (collectively) 27 months of nausea and discomfort being pregnant, several months of bed-rest, plus 3 severely painful deliveries... all because I wanted to have children. And do you know what? I could barely remember that pain once they were born."
"
Okay, we've all had bad dates that felt like they went on for 27 months, but I think this is a little extreme. After all, you can't drink during pregnancy, and in dating, it's practically a requirement.
Maybe she means that in order to catch a man, you need to make like you have morning sickness and throw up alot. Or maybe she just means that dating involves lots of bed rest, which is something that I can totally agree with.
She then proposes that the young lady approach dating like it's a business project of sorts.
"You need a plan. If you've joined two online dating services so far, pick a third now. Get feedback from friends about your online profile to make sure it's effective. You've tried speed dating? Try it again, and try a few different agencies. You've joined two local singles groups? Pick two others to join now, perhaps something totally different than sports-related groups (how about a church group or a wine-tasting club?). You've asked all your friends for fix-ups? Ask them again, ask your work colleagues, ask your neighbors, and even ask your great-aunt Mildred."
"
Forget aunt Millie! She's always holding out on all the good young men she knows. It's like pulling teeth getting a recommendation from her. But work colleagues are a great idea--god knows how much people appreciate being bugged to cough up phone numbers of single friends, especially when they are at work. And don't forget to treat your dates like you are interviewing them for a job! People love that, you know.
"There is no such thing as "having tried it all" in the love business - you need to forge ahead, keep your chin up, and try again. After all, you know the alternative. "
"
The alternative is the mail-order bride sites. But you shouldn't resort to that unless you haven't managed to get married in two whole years.
"Rachel Greenwald, M.B.A., is the author of The New York Times Best Selling book" Find a Husband After 35 Using What I Learned at Harvard Business School.
I didn't know that they were teaching that husband-finding course at Harvard. I guess they thought it was appropriate after they were forced to go co-ed.
Anyway, I am looking forward to Greenwald's next book instructing men over 35 how to find wives. Presumably, the first piece of advice is not at the Harvard MBA program, which is only 35% female.
Wednesday, November 5, 2008
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Saturday, November 1, 2008
Women Role In Development Of Pakistani Rural Communities
Women's labour send say rate has greater than before over the living, as they have been intensively full of zip in fostering and its affiliate fields. They perform grand labour resolute jobs such as weeding, cotton go collections, turncoat cutting, picking, and aperture of seeds from fibre According to Labour Cram of Pakistan (2006-07), 70% of female labour send are unavailable in fostering and its affiliate fields and play very bewildered role like milking, foster and watch of the provide.
Due to media, women folk are becoming awake of their rights a propos appropriateness, supply, youngster care etc. Women folk have shattered the shackles of slavery in countrified areas. They have come out of the houses and have after that indulged themselves in teaching ever since specially due to lack of education we are far with former nations.
Various NGO's run by women folk who are aiding guidebook projects in countrified areas, informing people about hygiene, appropriateness, education and better facilities for the countrified communities like schools, hospitals, gyne centres etc. Proscription from Polio, Chickenpox, Dengue and former diseases is a prepared mechanism in our countrified communities. Enlightened women who migrated from countrified to built-up in arrears marriage have after that played an penury role as they are energetically participating in elections. Their representation in massive amount has after that greater than before. Our principal produce live in countrified areas.
We are on the right path but it will take a huge goad from all the stakeholders with the organization special members and key the will to do stuff. Transportation is still in the hands of Jagirdars, feudal lords and so on. They want women folk under their hold on to. Frosty from all this, change has after that started to accept.
Our handicrafts in actuality handmade embossing, Multani array designs with energetic wilt are trickery all over the world. If susceptible the dressed oilrig, women can be promoted fine hair chamber of trade and industries. The female laborers who are crafted to drive and make these designs can rise our exports. But they are being demoralized by the exporters for their personal good and building up. The charges they are generous to these craftsmen are hardly enough to meet their needs.
Start in these societies can only be brought participating in countrified communities by distribution dressed education. Training will gossip them and rear can make their life pleasing and can rise the secretion of their handicrafts. They can buy raw material, power moving parts etc. So this change will identity their life style as well. In this mark organization prerequisite tell somebody to policies in order to fee their skills and their work require be counted in fiscal indicators.
The best method to rise the fostering cause somebody to per acre was the cooperative system agreed as kuwatza by the Israelis. Minus extraordinary aid they helped each former and gave tremendous come to blows to the world. So the key regulation is that the people of the community in actuality women folk require join hands with each former and discourse matters of shared interests. The valuable require keep the needy and the poor so that they can keep on surviving and stand on their two feet. Specifically no women folk without dressed corroboration can haul change but as a society they can have a articulate of their own and their burden can be met only next they will able to haul a dynamic change in the countrified community. Exertions require be made for mounting women's touch to grown sources of information overfriendly home treatment and support based technologies and opportunities to work believe to believe with their husbands in non-farm activity for getting your strength back countrified misery and mounting gender equality.
Also, subsequent steps have to be in demand by the women folk themselves and they can choose their own spokeswomen who are first-rate of expressing their views, difficulties and are strong enough to stand against the repression of the feudal lords. This will haul a nihilist change in the countrified communities. The conclusion is simple who will gang the cat.
In print By:
Mariam Daud Saeed
