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"These are the "feelings" I get from reading your responses."
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"some of your explanation bang into me to the core..."
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"You carry lovesick comatose be keen on...."
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"In the function of I carry no be keen on to ever correspond what I feel again on this site without being torn mumbled comment."
Right bestow we all carry fallen into the gender gap which keeps fueling this stupid war. Nowhere, in any of the responses by men, did I see any personal attacks on you. No one called you "silly, foolish, stupid, scatty"." Nowhere in any of the posts Conserve YOUR OWN were the words "bitches and whores" used.
In not good enough, you are accusing men of what they DID NOT DO! In the function of did I just say in one of my in the past replies? "Women will not experiment with what men do say."
No one attacked you particularly, they just responded to your catchphrase to "get back out gift and find one of the good ones" with -"No. And bestow is why."
How are you the dig out here? How did men expressing THEIR OWN Tryout, their own enragement, bang into YOU?
No one "tore you mumbled comment". They just spoken their own side of the story.
Yet, bestow we go - you carry been "letdown", you carry been bang into and compulsory to "learn a acute lesson". We carry "lovesick comatose your be keen on." Somehow, in being honest, the men who carry responded to you carry turned you into a dig out. Your heap is full of dig out language.
So, yes, this is how and why the vast largest part of American women are complicit in this atrocious misfortune. You do not want to experiment with what men carry to say. You want to limited YOURSELVES, but equally men limited THEMSELVES in meet, they nip the poor mean tender person on the added side.
So, guys are backpeddling and apologizing for aching your feelings. I'm rueful that your feelings were bang into, but I am not separation to recompense since I NEVER ATTACKED YOU! I will not get to your feet on either culpability or rebuke FOR No matter which I DID NOT DO.
I warned you not to try to wound beam of light up our butts. Since you carry walked a mile in our shoes, then we will keep your mind on to explanation you make about the experience. Until then, you are speaking from solidity. Certified, you try to flow the rebuke brutally and say a person is faulty, but by do its stuff so you gloss over the be in possession of complaints men deduct up again, and again, and again.
Go to the subordinate I mentioned - righteous this heap "In the function of the Bent Has Educated me about men - so far."
One fundamental interrupt -
"In listening to these men as they talked to each added and to me, I clued-up something that has honestly discrete my life."
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"It was this: men carry feelings. Seriously."
Wow. In the function of a concept! Men carry feelings too! Men are not anvils that can be broken up on 7x24x365 and pick up again unaffected by it.
See, this woman is do its stuff what you aren't, and what highest women won't - "she is rightly LISTENING to men, to what we Greatly SAY." She isn't putting words in our mouths that we DID NOT SAY - like "silly, foolish, stupid, scatty, whores, and bitches."
Folks are YOUR words, not ours, just as YOUR feelings are your feelings and we won't get to your feet organization for causing them by no more than being honest about our real life experiences.
If women really want to stop this stupid unending war, then they need to get to it really listening to men. They need to stop trying to keep men silenced by playing "oh, you big mean brutes, you carry bang into me."
If you carry been "bang into" by men's honest language of their own lives and experiences, it is harm which you carry constructed out of thin air. THE Gross Oral communication ARE YOURS, NOT OURS.
We just speak of our lives. If you do not want to experiment with it, and only want US to keep your mind on to YOU then I think that is the real lesson you neediness be prize from all this.
"MEN Be inclined to TO Gratify WOMEN AND Take back THEIR Approval, SO THEY Impart THEIR Role Away. MEN ARE Exceedingly Worried OF WOMEN; THEY Assemble Invaluable Apprehension OF WOMEN IF THEY Flavor THAT THE Organism IS Leaving TO Scolding THEM. Time after time Since HE EXPRESSES HIMSELF, SHE SAYS, 'OH, DON'T BE SO RIDICULOUS; I CAN'T Lead YOU'RE Appearance THAT!' OR 'WHY DON'T YOU Regularly Doorway To YOUR FEELINGS?' Furthermore Since THE GUY Meeting To HIS Emotional state, SHE'LL Habitually SAY, 'THAT'S STUPID!' OR 'YOU CAN'T Greatly Flavor THAT WAY!' SO THE WAY HE SEES IT IS NEVER Right. AND SO THE GUY SHUTS Catnap, AND HE REFUSES TO Doorway. THAT'S In the function of I SEE IN MY Usage Supervisor AND Supervisor. THE GUY WONDERS, 'WHY Must I Establish MY Mouth, Since Every Segment I DO, SHE TELLS ME IT'S WRONG?'" -- shrink Laurie Ingraham, in "Inlet Energy Towards Men" by Jack Kammer
"AS Listeners, WIVES TENDED TO Expound Even more Fatalist NON-VERBAL BEHAVIOUR THAN THEIR HUSBANDS. WIVES WERE Fatalist Listeners 11% OF THE Segment COMPARED TO THEIR HUSBAND'S 3%."
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"Fatalist Outlook CUES" Maintain "Angry look, Sneer, Apprehension, Bewail, Wound up Outlook OR Disgust."
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"Fatalist Involvement CUES" ARE "Cruel, Worrying, Anxious, Loud, Whining, Ridiculous, BLAMING, Wound up, Backache, Strange OR Downcast."
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"Fatalist Sum CUES" ARE "Weapons AKIMBO (Gone HANDS ON HIP), Worrying Collar OR HANDS, INNATTENTIVE, POINTING, JABBING OR SLICING Gone THE Operator."
-- Clifford I. Notarius and Jennifer S. Johnson, "History of Conjugal and the Cord," 1982
The Lamentations of Matheolus: Dominating Clock, 1295:
THIS Female Clock IS Greatly Extreme ME MAD, FOR HER Quarrelsome DIN DOESN'T Refrain from FOR A Intention. THE Oration OF A Quarrelsome Organism NEVER TIRES OF CHIMING IN. SHE Flatten DROWNS OUT THE In a good way OF THE Minster Radio alarm. A Awkward Next of kin COULDN'T Object Underneath WHETHER HER Oral communication ARE Trial OR Slow, PROVIDED THAT THE In a good way OF HER OWN Involvement CAN BE HEARD. SHE Handily PURSUES HER OWN ENDS; THERE'S NOT A Grain OF Importance IN In the function of SHE SAYS; IN Fact SHE FINDS IT Impossible TO Assemble A Accurately Bother. SHE DOESN'T Interpret HER Spouse TO BE THE Condescending AND FINDS Fault Gone No matter which HE DOES. Extremely OR Inadequately, THE Spouse HAS NO CHOICE: HE HAS TO PUT UP Gone THE Folder AND Capture HIS Mouth Close down IF HE Wants TO Be present IN ONE Impede. NO MAN, In spite of that Person Tidy OR CLEAR-SIGHTED HE MAY BE, CAN Wrap HIMSELF Adequately Chary THIS. A Spouse HAS TO Be inclined to In the function of THE Next of kin LIKES, AND Forbid OF In the function of SHE HATES AND Scolding In the function of SHE CRITICIZES SO THAT HER OPINIONS Appear TO BE Right. SO A person WHO Desires TO IMMOLATE HIMSELF ON THE ALTAR OF Conjugal Energy Assemble A LOT TO PUT UP Gone. FIFTEEN Period, What's more DAY AND Sundown, HE Energy Put up with Lacking Put your feet up AND HE Energy BE SORELY Distressed. Definite, I Lead THAT THIS Persecute IS Slash THAN THE TORMENTS OF HELL, Gone ITS Restraints, Hellhole, AND Iron.
New-found Reading:
Zenpriest #14 - If a Man Speaks in the Woodland, and Offer is No Organism Offer to Blot Him, Is He Quiet Wrong?
Bonecrker #3 - Shaming Natter
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